Who do you look up to?

*Open scene*

New biz owner is sitting in a desk at their home office,  Scrolling mindlessly through IG.

*Internal dialogue*

"What? How did she just hit a 10k month, Is everyone hitting them but me?? What is wrong with me?"

*End scene*

Has anyone else compared themselves to a random (or maybe not so random) account on IG? Let's say you signed up for the course, made the big investment, only to realize the topics covered are way too high level for you.

I mean, you are in month 6 of your business, you're working this business part-time with limited cash open for investments.
She's in Year 3, with cash in the bank, steady income, working 40 hour weeks, with a small team behind her. Despite what is most likely going on behind the scenes, you compare your business to hers.

It's automatic, it's instinctive.

You didn't see the breakdown she just had last week because a client skipped town on her (virtually).

You didn't see the coach she invested in that gave her no tangible to-dos and never even followed up. (talk about a dead end). All of a sudden you realize, you have no idea what that 10k month consisted of.
Maybe the way this individual makes 10k months isn't the way you would envision yourself doing it, nonetheless something you would even want to do. 

You don't have all the pieces of the puzzle, neither does she.

Investing your time and energy idolizing someone can lead you down a dark rabbit hole.

So, that's why I ask you again, who do you look up to?

What about the business you are constructing? Why isn't it good enough?

Are your strategies really failing you?
Or are you comparing yourself to others so much, that nothing is good enough?
How far you've come,
NOT GOOD ENOUGH.
You should be doing better...

Here I am, telling you, I love who you are now. 

I love the way you are building your business to scale.

I love the way you stick to your strategies until you've outgrown them.

I love the way you serve your clients, they align with  your company's values.

I love the way you are living out your company's mission and vision, your business is so uniquely you.

SO, to all my people who have been scrolling and comparing.
​Stop the scrolling, and start creating and building.

LOVE your biz coach,
​Gabby B.